What does Realistic Goal Setting look like and Why does it Matter?

What does Realistic Goal Setting look like and Why does it Matter?

Setting process goals that help you reach your dream end goal. 

As athletes, it is natural to dream big and think about the end goal. Whether that goal is qualifying for Boston, breaking three hours in the marathon, or simply completing your first 5K, having something to work toward can be incredibly motivating. These types of goals, often referred to as outcome goals, focus on the end result an athlete hopes to achieve. They give us direction and something exciting to strive for.

What is often missing, however, is the process of getting there.

Before we go any further, it’s helpful to understand that not all goals are created equal. Goals are generally broken into three categories: outcome goals, performance goals, and process goals. Each one serves a different purpose, and together they create a roadmap for success.

Outcome goals are the big-picture dreams. They’re the results you’re ultimately hoping to achieve, like qualifying for Boston, breaking three hours in the marathon, or finishing on the podium in your age group. These goals are exciting because they give you something to work toward, but they’re also the least within your control. Things like weather, course conditions, competition, or simply having an off day can all influence the outcome.

Performance goals bring the focus a little closer to home. Instead of comparing yourself to other runners, these goals are about improving your own performance. Maybe your goal is to run a personal best, hold a specific pace during a race, or finish stronger than you did in your last marathon. These goals are more controllable than outcome goals, but they can still be influenced by factors outside your control.

Then there are process goals, which are where the real magic happens. Process goals focus on the daily habits and actions that help you improve over time. They’re the workouts you complete, the strength sessions you don’t skip, the recovery you prioritize, and the fueling strategy you practice before race day. While these goals may not seem as exciting as chasing a finish time, they’re the ones that ultimately determine whether you’ll get there.

A simple way to think about it is this: your outcome goal is your destination, your performance goal tells you how you’re progressing, and your process goals are the step-by-step directions that get you there.

Goals in Action

Let’s say your dream is to qualify for the Boston Marathon. That’s your outcome goal. To do that, you may need to run a marathon in under 3:30, which becomes your performance goal. The process goals are everything you do consistently along the way—completing your long runs, practicing marathon pace workouts, strength training twice a week, dialing in your nutrition, and prioritizing recovery.

While it’s perfectly okay to dream big, the runners who make the most progress aren’t thinking about their finish time every single day. They’re focused on the small, controllable actions that gradually move them closer to that goal. Those daily choices may not feel glamorous, but over weeks and months of training, they’re what make the biggest difference.

Without focusing on the smaller steps between where you are today and your overarching goal, it’s easy to become discouraged. Progress rarely happens overnight, and if the only measure of success is whether you achieve your end goal, months of hard work can begin to feel insignificant. Instead, we want to set realistic process goals that act like the rungs of a ladder. Each goal builds upon the previous one, making progress feel manageable, sustainable, and ultimately more rewarding.

So, what does effective goal setting look like, and why is it so important?

One of the biggest benefits of process goals is that they help build confidence. Confidence isn’t something that suddenly appears on race morning—it develops throughout training. Every time you accomplish a small goal, you provide yourself with evidence that you’re capable of taking the next step.

For example, imagine your goal is to run a marathon at an 8:00 per mile pace. Rather than waiting until race day to find out if you can hold that pace, you gradually work toward it during training. Maybe your first goal is to complete two miles at marathon pace during a long run. A few weeks later, you progress to four miles, then six, and eventually longer sustained efforts. Each successful workout reinforces your belief that the goal is attainable. By the time you reach the starting line, you’ve already practiced running your goal pace multiple times, making it feel familiar rather than intimidating.

On the other hand, if an athlete attempts to run their goal pace for the very first time on race day and falls short, it can quickly become discouraging. That disappointment may lead them to question their fitness or lose confidence in themselves, even if they completed months of quality training. Process goals help eliminate much of that uncertainty by allowing athletes to build confidence gradually instead of placing all of the pressure on one performance.

In addition to building confidence, process goals give your training a sense of purpose. Training can sometimes feel repetitive, especially during long training cycles when race day still seems far away. It’s easy to lose sight of the bigger picture when you’re simply checking off workouts week after week.

By setting incremental goals throughout a training cycle, every workout becomes intentional. Instead of viewing a workout as “just another tempo run” or “another long run,” you begin to see it as an opportunity to accomplish a specific objective that moves you one step closer to your larger goal. These smaller milestones also provide regular opportunities to celebrate progress, which can help maintain motivation and reduce the risk of burnout.

Finally, process goals provide realistic check-ins and allow athletes to measure progress in ways that extend beyond race times. Progress doesn’t always mean running faster. Sometimes, success looks like becoming more consistent, improving recovery habits, or simply building a sustainable routine.

For example, an athlete who currently runs two days per week may have a long-term goal of consistently running three days each week. Rather than making that jump immediately, a process goal might be to run three days every other week for two months. Once that becomes comfortable and sustainable, the athlete can gradually transition to running three days every week.

This approach not only makes the goal feel more attainable, but it also increases the likelihood of long-term success. Instead of becoming overwhelmed by trying to change everything at once, the athlete builds confidence with each milestone and develops habits that are more likely to stick. Over time, those small, intentional steps add up to meaningful progress—and that’s exactly what effective goal setting is all about.

Codi is a coach with Team RunRun, to learn more about her, check out her coach profile.