mentality Archives

Pillars for Growth in Running and Life

March 23, 2025

The Power of Consistency and Honesty

If there’s one thing I’ve learned as both a runner and a coach, it’s this: growth in running and life rarely comes from perfection—it comes from showing up and telling the truth.

Sounds like something we all learned back in kindergarten, right? (Did I just date myself?)

In my coaching philosophy, two pillars for growth in running and life have always stood at the core: Be Consistent and Be Honest (with yourself). Simple? Sure. But these two have been the compass guiding me through personal challenges, races, coaching athletes, and navigating life’s inevitable curveballs. And trust me, there have been plenty.

*TRR Coach Corey Turnbull executing a great race as a result of consistency in training.*

Consistency: The Unsung Hero

We all crave magic formulas or breakthrough moments, but most of the time, real growth hides in the mundane. It’s tucked inside the slow build of miles week after week, the decision to stick with your mobility routine even when you’d rather be on the couch, or simply lacing up on the hard days—those are the quiet victories where consistency shines.

To me, consistency isn’t about militant routine or doing the same thing every day without fail. It’s about steady forward momentum. It’s trusting that the small, almost forgettable efforts—the ones no one applauds—are the ones that build something bigger over time.

I’ve seen this play out in my own training, where seasons of patient, steady work always beat short bursts of overreaching (though, Garmin will still lovingly remind me it’s “unproductive”). As a coach, I remind my athletes: show up imperfect but show up. It’s better than swinging for the fences and burning out. And if you want further proof, this 2022 study titled “Exercise answer: Research shows it’s how often you do it, not how much” says it all!

Honesty: The Inner Compass

The second pillar—honesty—is just as critical, and let’s be real, sometimes harder.

It’s easy to be honest with others. Being honest with yourself? That’s where the heavy lifting happens.

Am I avoiding that hard workout because my body needs recovery—or am I afraid of being uncomfortable today? Am I training to prove something, or because it aligns with my values and goals? Are these extra miles for training or to numb stress from other parts of my life? (Yep, guilty.)

These are the quiet check-ins I have with myself—and I encourage my athletes to do the same. Running has a sneaky way of holding up a mirror, forcing us to look at what’s really going on. The more honest we are, the stronger the connection becomes between mind and body.

And here’s the kicker: if you can’t afford to be honest, life—or your body—will often find a way to level you out. The universe has its own quirky system of checks and balances, and injury tends to be one of its favorite tools.

*Three athletes on an easy run, putting consistency and honesty into practice.*

Navigating Life’s Uncertainties

These two pillars for growth aren’t just for the run—they anchor me when life outside of training gets messy. Whether I’m navigating workplace stress, managing recovery from an injury, or sorting through personal growth, these principles are my north star.

When life feels chaotic, consistency grounds me—those small daily actions that keep me tethered. When I’m tempted to check out, avoid, or mask the discomfort, honesty calls me back to center.

How to Leverage These Two Pillars for Improved Performance

If you take away one thing from this, whether you’re a runner, coach, or just someone reading this over coffee, it’s this: your ability to stay consistent and be honest with yourself will shape your progress far more than any shiny new training plan or natural talent ever could.

Running isn’t just about VO2 max or pace charts—it’s about building a relationship with yourself. A relationship rooted in showing up, imperfections and all, and having the guts to tell the truth about who you are, where you are, what you need, and where you’re headed.

That’s how we grow—not just as runners, but as humans.

Corey Turnbull is a Team RunRun Coach based in Ottawa. He works with beginners just starting out or with seasoned runners looking for a breakthrough. Corey helps athletes maximize the limited training time they have, prioritizing consistency, focus and fun.

The Coaches Collective: Insights From a Certified Coach

March 27, 2025March 21, 2025

A training that provides the skills to support the unique psychological needs of athletes

*Two athletes running in the High Oregon Desert. PC: Kelsey McGill*

Introducing The Coaches Collective

I first heard about Dr. Lara Pence’s training, The Coaches Collective, through an Instagram reel: “If you’ve been told you feel things too deeply…. there’s no ruler for that and it’s not a thing. You’re feeling them exactly the way you’re meant to…..” It resonated with me to my core. I perused her Instagram page (@drlarapence) and reflected on the many golden nuggets that, as a coach and counselor, aligned with my personal beliefs on removing pathology from the human experience. Non-pathology in this sense means we avoid putting labels or disorders onto someone when uncomfortable emotions, thoughts, or sensations arise.

Effective coaches support athletes psychologically as well as physiologically

Dr. Lara Pence is a Clinical Psychologist who has decades of experience directly supporting athletes. She founded The Coaches Collective to educate and provide coaches with necessary skills to support the humans they work with. I say “humans” because as a coach, we are often one of the first people our athletes communicate with when X, Y, Z arises. Being able to maintain a non-judgmental, empathic, supportive presence is crucial when difficulties arise for our athletes.

Whether an athlete is sidelined from sport due to injury, the anxiety becomes overwhelming leading up to a race, or an athlete deeply struggles getting enough nutrition while training, this course will, without a doubt, provide you with necessary steps and tools to support your athlete. Hopefully, coaches will refer the athlete to an outside specialist with expertise in the athlete’s area of struggle. But as coaches, we can also learn the skills to be more involved and supportive when challenges arise.

My personal experience with The Coaches Collective

Fast forward to March 2025. I was lucky enough to partake in The Coaches Collective, a 2.5 day extensive training course. Compared to any of my previous training as a mental health professional and run coach, this education through The Coaches Collective far surpassed my expectations of how we can better support our athletes to help establish healthier norms, practices, and communication channels.

The training highlighted a myriad of noteworthy topics. These included: identifying our values as a coach, the power of the coaching-athlete relationship, boundary-setting, cultural considerations, and the importance of reflection as a coach. We also discussed the psychological needs of athletes. This included how to support those experiencing anxiety, depression, grief, injury, disordered eating, body image challenges, and more.

The depth of the material and skills we were provided with took me aback. The material was a highly impressive merging of mental and emotional wellness resources with unique athlete considerations. The group processing and discussions provided ample room for retaining the information. It also allowed for direct application moving forward.

Creating community through The Collective

In addition to the in-depth materials and resources we were provided, Dr. Lara Pence brought such an enthusiastic, collaborative, curious, and welcoming presence for the entire duration of the training. Needless to say, we often peppered her and the entire cohort with a number of questions to directly apply these skills to our current and prospective athletes. I’ll be the first to admit that I walked away from this training feeling so much more reflective in my own process as a coach. The discussions don’t just remain solely confined to the weekend-intensive, fortunately. Upon completion of the training, you can attend a weekly virtual meeting, The All Collective. Here you can converse and meet previous Coaches Collective attendees, which can broaden the doors for further consultation and mentorship. The All Collective is also a great way to retain the content that you may have forgotten from the weekend!

Final thoughts

Whether you are new to coaching or you’ve been in the profession for decades, I highly recommend The Coaching Collective. I guarantee you will learn heaps of invaluable skills to apply to every athletes you coach the very next day. Take a look here to learn more!

Kelsey McGill is a UESCA-Certified Ultrarunning Coach with Team RunRun. She has 10+ years of experience in coaching all levels and ages of runners, specializing in trail running and ultrarunning.

A Secret For Running

February 10, 2025

And the Undervalued Importance of Patience

Psssttt…wanna know a secret for running? Wanna know the real “hack”? Running isn’t just about fitness—it’s about patience. And if you don’t learn patience, running will teach you the same lesson—over and over.

It’s in training, when workouts don’t click, when your legs feel sluggish, when you’re putting in the work but the numbers won’t budge. It’s on race day, when every instinct tells you to go, but you have to hold back, when you’re deep in the pain and wondering if you can hold on. And it’s especially in injury, when progress is out of your hands, when you’re forced to sit still while everything in you wants to push.

*Two runners embracing the secret for running: training with patience and consistency.*

We’re a society that has shifted (quickly and without thought) to instant gratification, unreasonable timelines, and expectations that don’t match reality or human capabilities. And we’re unhappy. We want guarantees and crave results now. We want to skip the part where things are hard. But running doesn’t work like that. Progress takes time, setbacks are inevitable, and the finish line isn’t handed to you—it’s earned, one patient step at a time. That’s a secret for running—or, at least, it was secret.

*Runner slowing down and taking the time to stretch.*

Patience is uncomfortable because it forces us to accept a hard truth—we are only in control of two things: showing up and our reaction. But we crave a clear cause-and-effect relationship: put in the work, see the results. It doesn’t always work that way. Progress is often invisible until it isn’t. The body adapts on its own timeline, not the one we set. And sometimes, setbacks aren’t detours but part of the path itself.

Patience is frustrating, especially when we equate improvement with effort, and effort with action. But patience isn’t about doing nothing. It’s about knowing when to act and when to wait. It’s about trusting the work, even when the outcome isn’t immediate. And it’s about understanding that adaptation takes time—whether we like it or not.

Running isn’t a straight path forward. It’s filled with plateaus, setbacks, and moments that test your resolve. Some days, you fly. Some days, you fight for every step. But if you stay patient—if you keep showing up even when it doesn’t seem to be working—you’ll find yourself standing in a place you once thought impossible.

And here’s the thing—running teaches patience the way life does. It reminds us that we can slow down, we can trust the process, and we can let things unfold as they should. The more we learn this lesson in running, the more we can apply it elsewhere.

So when things aren’t going your way, when frustration tempts you to force what isn’t ready—just breathe.

This message was brought to you by a human and a current student of Patience.

If you enjoyed this article, check out “What Are You Going to Do with All That Fitness?” also by Corey Turnbull.